When life or loss overwhelms you, it can be a confusing, frightening, and lonely place to be, causing feelings of anxiety, depression, conflict, or feeling stuck.
I am here to help work through what's not working for you with the aim of bringing a sense of clarity and peace into your life.
If you would like help to understand what's going on for you and find ways to move forward but maybe aren't sure where or how to begin, please click here to contact me.
Alternatively, call or message me on 07874069805 or send an email to staniafrances@gmail.com
Hello and welcome,
I've worked in private practice and with other mental health organisations for over 8 years, helping people to make positive changes to their lives. I'm a fully qualified and accredited counsellor, registered with the NCS (National Counselling Society) and trained in Transactional Analysis psychotherapy.
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National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society Accredited Counselling L6 Diploma
Association of Transactional Analysis RTE Counselling Diploma
Formal Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy training
Registered member of British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
Building an open relationship and trust between us.
At the heart of my work, I consider the strength of our working relationship as critical to achieving the best possible outcome for your success. I believe you have worth and value with the capacity to think and make your own decisions to shape and continue to re-shape your own life.
I feel that it is important to have both excellent qualifications and also a range of life experiences. Anchored in Transactional Analysis theory, I blend various tools, techniques and strategies which are tailored to suit your needs.
Please click on the video to discover my three simple principles for work and life.
Many issues can be a result of the unique combination of our cultures and experiences. You may be unaware of how these influence and impact your life today. Together, we can work to explore and understand how you could live your life differently in the future, break unwanted patterns and invite awareness, intimacy and spontaneity.
When you're ready and at your own pace, we can work through problems and issues you are facing together, with the aim of empowering you to live the life you want, to the full.
People come to me for help a wide range of issues. Here are a few of the more common difficulties that I have supported through counselling:
Anxiety and Panic Attacks
Stressful Relationships
Low - Lonely - Empty - Lost
Work-Life Balance
Lack of Confidence or self-esteem
Family or School Life
Stressed - Confused - Stuck
Grief, loss or bereavement
The unspoken or unknown
The unspoken or unknown
My sessions run Monday - Friday, 9am - 5pm and last 50 minutes.
I provide short- or long-term work in person or online.
£50
Initially, we have a no-obligation session where I am happy to address questions you may have regarding how we will work together and what you would like to work toward. It also gives a feel of our working relationship, which may help you decide if you feel we are a good fit – research shows this is important for you to get the best possible therapeutic outcome.
£50 Session time fifty minutes.
Sessions are recommended weekly, on a mutually agreed day & time.
£65 Session time one hour
Sessions are recommended weekly, on a mutually agreed day & time
Full fees are charged for missed or cancelled sessions with less than 2 working days' (Mon - Fri) notice.
I provide face to face sessions for individuals and partners in Harrietsham, near Maidstone, Kent ME17 1GF. Online sessions are also provided for individuals and partners using either MS Teams or WhatsApp platforms
Therapy can facilitate change for what doesn't work for you in your life and help you to become the best version of yourself. It can help you to get to know, like, value and respect yourself more rather than fighting internally against yourself.
Usually, the first session is usually about getting to know you, your history and current situation. An action plan is developed to focus on your objectives. We will also discuss the number of sessions that work best for you.
As we build a relationship, we'll be able to look at your thoughts, feelings and behaviour surrounding the issues you're bringing to session. There may be patterns of repetition or themes that we can explore. We can make use psychotherapeutic models, appropriate coping and management strategies while working towards your goal.
Everyone is different - most people come for a series of sessions once a week. Typically, we'll have a review every 6 sessions and also discuss how you want to proceed. Short term work tends to be 6-8 sessions, medium term about 18 sessions, while others may want the benefits of long term work. It depends on what you are looking to achieve as well as your availability and budget.
It's up to you if you share and how much, but you should never feel obligated to tell anyone. Sessions are often profoundly private and personal and should be respected. You have a choice to share or not, even if someone else pays for your sessions.
Parking is available in the car park opposite or on the street side. I don’t have a waiting area though, so I would respectfully ask you to arrive when your session is due to begin and be mindful of people who may be finishing their session
You can self refer or be referred by your GP.
I only treat private clients and as such there is no NHS funding.
My sessions are by appointment only and available on Weekdays, Mon-Fri. To book an appointment you can call 07874069805 or email me.
I provide face to face, telephone or online appointments, to suit your availability and preference.
After a session, creating some quiet downtime for reflection provides time to process what we have been working on.
Maybe create your own journal: Making your own personal notes of any thoughts, feelings or issues to discuss pre and post sessions can be helpful. If you feel creative: making, writing and drawing your own journal may also be a form of relaxation. For others there are several free private journal software online. (eg. Penzu).
Let me know if you would like to work differently or towards different goals. I will work with your agenda and the important current issues you have.
Your records will be retained securely in a locked cabinet. Email correspondence is kept securely on a pass-coded device. Any recorded sessions or session notes are anonymous and once a case study is complete any recordings are deleted. You will be asked to sign a privacy notice which explains that you have the right to see and ask how your data are stored. You can also withdraw consent at any time, where you have previously given consent. You can verify the accuracy of your data and ask for it to be updated / corrected and to restrict the processing of your data.
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about how counselling works, or to arrange an initial appointment. This enables us to discuss the reasons you are thinking of coming to counselling, to find out if it could be helpful and whether I am the right therapist for you.
You may also call me on 07874069805 if you would prefer to leave a message or speak to me first. I am happy to discuss any queries or questions you may have prior to arranging an initial appointment.
All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.
You can also find me on Counselling Directory and Psychology Today websites.
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